by Lady JessI am very pleased to introduce you to our March 2009 Girl of Grace, Miss Jocelyn. It has been such a blessing to me to have become friends with Miss Jocelyn since we started GGM. She has been an inspiration to me and I am thankful to our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ for bringing our families to have such a sweet friendship.
Lady Jess: Could you please tell me how you decided to raise goats?Miss Jocelyn: When I was about fourteen I decided I'd really like to get some goats to raise for dairy and to start my own business with lotions, soaps, and cheeses. I cannot recall what suddenly made me want goats, but I suddenly wanted to start really living a country lifestyle and figured goats was as good as any place to start. I decided to get Nubian goats because of the way they looked. I had not even counted for that they were also one of the best breed for diary. Anglo-Nubians are also called the "lop-eared Goat" for obvious reasons. They have a long "roman" nose and floppy-ears. They are also one of the largest breeds.
I began looking around online and in the paper in early May to see if any were for sale at a reasonable price. I found several but I think Father Sir decided a definite "yes" when they were only a mile or two down the road from us.

After that we had about a week to put up fencing for them and clean out the stalls. I was so excited and nervous about getting the goats. It was a very strange thought to me having our own livestock because it was just something we'd never done before. They arrived as the first on the Dixon Homestead: Chloe and Heidi. It was a joy every morning and night to go down and take of them.
It's been three-years now since we bought them and both Chloe and Heidi have had three kids, and their kids have all had kids as well. We thought about raising the bucks for meat but ended up selling them instead. We currently have nine goats, six does and three bucks. I've really enjoyed having the goats, though we've had a few snags here and there, and they been a really joy for me. I looking down there, especially in the summer, seeing them lounging in the sun or eating the fallen apples.
Lady Jess: What is your favourite thing to study?Miss Jocelyn: I think the subject I most enjoy studying is history, which in turn also means the Bible. I cannot ever recall not enjoying studying history, learning about the things of the past, and knowing how they impacted the future. I've been blessed to be put into a position where education isn't something of uniform but something that I can enjoy while furthering my knowledge of the world and God. I know Mother Dear has said many times that there was no opportunity for her, in school, to enjoy or really know history. It was just something she was expected and had to do. More specifically my favourite subject to study in history is the Medieval times, the reign of Queen Elizabeth the I, 1800's England, and that of pioneer life in the 1800s.
Lady Jess: What inspired you to start making graphics and building blogs?Miss Jocelyn: I've always been an artistic child and designing graphics is just an extension of that. I love being able to express things in graphics and photos. When I started blogging I didn't even know how to read any HTML or CSS.

I was so frustrating trying to put in an image and stat code in my template, thinking that anything else was beyond my intelligence. As the months went on and I saw other sites with beautiful designs I determined myself to learn. Mother Dear really was the one who started figuring out the coding, but I guess I just caught on quickly and
advanced my knowledge of coding as best I could from online help and books. For about two years I was just designing templates for fun or to help someone out. Then this past year I decided to set up a business site where people can order custom graphics, and it was also a way for me to help those in need. As created beings with traits of our Maker there is just something inside of us that makes want to beautify the world with our creations, even if they only be graphics.
Lady Jess: What kinds of things would you like to learn how to cook that you have never done before?Miss Jocelyn: Well, I think I would really like to learn more about cooking authentic Mexican food. Father Sir was born and raised in New Mexico so he knows what real Mexican food tastes like and I would love to learn how to properly prepare it, though I was taught how to make enchiladas and Spanish rice from my mother who was taught by Father Sir's mother and grandmother. Other than that I think European food would be something to learn how to cook. Whenever I get the chance I love to watch cooking-shows where you not only get to see how to prepare certain foods but history and reasoning behind the dish. Food is an art so it does take training, and what can be a more welcome homemaking trait than to know how to cook good food?
Lady Jess: How has having a large family brought you all closer together?Miss Jocelyn: We've not always had a large family, really, I mean while growing up we had only five children until I was twelve when Issac, our sixth, was born. So during those years I had a lot of church-friends whom I spent time with, but it wasn't until we went through many hardships with churches that we started to come together as a family. After that my sisters became my best friends and so did my mother.

I've especially enjoyed the closeness I have with her, and because we do not have many outside friends, close, we are able to truly be best friends and to
learn and encourage one another. Knowing that your family will always be your family and having so many people of all different ages has not only brought us closer together, but closer to what the Lord has in store for us. Being in a large family as also given me great opportunity to prepare myself for, not only all ages and people, but how to handle situations from all stages of life. Many time people don't get to learn how to get along, to raise young ones, or to just work through the tough times until they're already grown up, married, with kids, and at a loss of what to do. I've been able to explore childhood at all aspects, including the knowledge of knowing how a three-old acts just as I did when I was three, though I will say boys are a bit different than girls! My little siblings, especially my princess LucyLillie, bring so much smiles and laughter into our lives.
Lady Jess: What is a few of your favourite things about homeschooling?Miss Jocelyn: I used to be a very disciplined person. I remember at age eleven getting up at early hours to begin my schoolwork for the fun of it, but as I got older and was allowed to stay up later my schedule slowly waned. Being homeschooled, not on anyone's schedule, has been a big blessing for not only sleeping hours but in every area of our lives. Another thing I love about homeschooling is the opportunity to be able to learn and advance my knowledge in subjects and fields that best suit my future. Not being constrained by someone else's standards.
Lady Jess: What is your favourite home keeping thing that you've learned?Miss Jocelyn: I don't think there is one thing I could name, but perhaps the skill of managing. You can learn all other arts of homemaking, such as launder, cooking, sewing etc, but the key of all that is managing.

You have to manage time, finances, and tasks. Otherwise the home will fall apart from lack of care.
Lady Jess: I know you do gardening, what is your most favourite fruit or vegetable that you grow in your garden?Miss Jocelyn: Tomatoes. I love tomatoes. It's been many a dreary months since the last of our tomatoes from the freezer ran out. I don't like tomatoes by themselves, but make a soup, dip, sandwich, dish, or roast them is simply irresistible. I we're planning on growing a great deal this year so we can stock up on them and I'm looking forward to having a bigger garden than we've ever had - with lots of tomatoes!
Lady Jess: How old were you when you began to write so deeply for the Lord on your blog?Miss Jocelyn: Nearly sixteen I think. Before that it was just a here and there article on the Bible and quotes. The Lord placed something on my heart that I needed to use my readership for His glory, and from then on no matter how confrontational or "judgmental" I may have sounded I wrote what the Lord placed on my heart. It's hard sometimes to contain the passion I have for sharing what He's placed on my heart because it seems that the Body has fallen so far away from what is truly holy and cannot understand it.

I have many topics I would love to speak my mind about, but the Lord has not led me to write or share those things on my blog. Once I gave my blog to the Lord he took it to new heights and made it something I never thought it would be.
Lady Jess: You wrote on your blog about how the Lord spoke to you about your then favorite film LOTR, can you describe how the Lord brought you through that and what kind of battle the flesh attempted to attack you with and how you overcame that?Miss Jocelyn: Giving up Lord of the Rings was, honestly, easier than I would have ever thought. "Favourite film" is an understatement of how involved I was with LOTR. I not only prided myself in knowing the histories and facts, but also how to understand some of the Elven language. Since I was eleven (six-years) this was, though I didn't realize it, an idol in my life. The years before I was convicted of this sin of idolatry and sorcery I was growing spiritually but still spending more time in my "LOTR-Bible" than I was in the Word of God. When the Spirit finally hit me with an article written by a former-witch about the subtle witchcraft laced within the entire series I was so distraught by what I had slowly allowed in my life. I pondered and chewed on it for weeks so confused at what had been done. Looking back, about five-six months before this I had really just dropped having anything to do with LOTR and I think the Lord was preparing me for this so when the time came it wasn't so hard to let go. Through much prayer and meditation I decided to search out what the Word of God had to say about things contained in the series, and that made my decision. Sometimes it's easier not to think about it, just do. There was yet a harder decision to make... to sell my collection or burn it. In the end I figured that if I shouldn't read it no one else should either, and I certainly didn't want to make a profit on something that the Lord had convicted me was evil. It could also be seen as a way of "getting what I get" for having such abominations before my eyes, above the Lord. If the Spirit is being allowed to work in your life things that are unGodly won't be hard to overcome.
Lady Jess: Many of us know that you take hits from people when you blog about your standard of living. Many girls become fearful of that happening to them and it causes them to be quiet about their beliefs. What can you tell them to help encourage them to stand for what they believe in?Miss Jocelyn: The best way to show people what and why you believe in something is by living it out, even online.

You don't have to write an article directly about your beliefs to stand for them. You just have to make it known that you are striving to live a Godly life and nothing, not the weight of this world or remarks of others, will drag you down. Use the Word of God like a two-edge sword, to defend your beliefs and to cut down Satan's lies. Keep a positive look on trials and tribulations you face because the Lord is always in control and He has allowed you to go through them for a purpose.
Lady Jess: After you graduate, is there a subject(s) you are considering studying in depth on for your college level homeschooling?Miss Jocelyn: I don't know that it would be on a "college-level" but I would like to finish the math and algebra I have now and then perhaps study more of it for teaching my own children. I would also like to get into publishing my writings that will take a great deal of study, finances, and business-dealings.
Lady Jess: We know you have a desire to homeschool your own family one day, in what areas does your mom train you as a future homeschooling mom?Miss Jocelyn: I think the best thing she's taught me is how to work with different ages and personalities. Sometimes some kids are more advanced, have more patience, or are just apt to learning while some will take a little longer, and to be successful in training children you really have to know how to look at a person and determine what is best at that particular time. We've changed our schooling methods around several times so it has given me a broader knowledge of how or what is best for each family and what different ways to incorporate school if you don't just use the classical method. The most important thing I've been taught is in everything, schooling or not, to meditate and heed the Word of God. The Bible says the beginning of wisdom is the fear of the Lord, and wisdom is what we are trying to gain through our education so what better place to start!
Lady Jess: You have been such an encouragement to me over the past years that I've known you. Do you often have girls write to you for encouragement?Miss Jocelyn: Yes, I get my fair share of emails from ladies and I am always happy to encourage them in their walk with the Lord, no matter the area.

Sometimes I write directly to them and/or sometimes their questions lead me to write up an article for my blog to encourage anyone who may be wondering the same thing. It is such a blessing to know that the Lord is using me to be a source of encouragement to other young ladies. I always try to encourage them to seek their parents counsel, study the Word, and to pray fervently for whatever they're facing. There are times when I'm at a loss of what to say, but the Lord will use you if you let Him. There are also times where ladies have no other support, other than what they find online, and it is so important to always be encouraging others to trust fully in the Lord because things of this world will never be steady. I try to check in on friends as often as I can too, just to let them know that I was thinking and praying about them. I am also blessed with emails of encouragement from readers to me here and there.
Well now you can see why Miss Jocelyn has been a gift from God in my life. Miss Jocelyn thank you so much for sharing your life with us this month. We look forward to reading what God lays upon your heart to publish. I have no doubt it will be astounding! May the Lord Jesus Christ be with you always in everything you do and write.
Lady Jess is a teen lady who is homeschooled along with her siblings. She assists her mother in teaching her younger siblings, is an interpreter in her church's deaf ministry, sings in two local choirs, and is in training to be a homeschooling parent herself one day.