Galatians 3:8, "There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus."
I believe part of the reason is because they live according to the Law. They become a judge of what is right or wrong in the life of another believer. Yes, we are to be accountable to one another. The Bible says to "confess your faults one to another." But it doesn't tell you to make a list of all your friend's sins and go to their door proclaiming how sinful they are. There is a fine line between being judgmental Pharisees and preaching to the people the message of repentance.
Ladies, it is not our position to be busy bodies, meddling in the affairs of one another.
1 Timothy 5:13, "And withal they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house; and not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies, speaking things which they ought not."
As a young lady, your position is to be obedient to your parents. If you have a friend who is close to you and she sees you talk back to your mother, I believe a true friend would admonish you to obey. You may not like it when a friend corrects you on the spot, but that is what a true friend would do. On the other hand I do not feel it is beneficial for a friend to come over and begin telling you about all your sins and how to make them right. Do you see what I mean about there being a fine line?I am a Believer in Jesus Christ, but I am not the same as every other Believer. Some Believers don't want to reach out to a drug addict and show them how to be free from their bondage and work alongside them to get their lives back together. Some Believers don't want to help a homeless person on the side of the road, they think they are dirty and deserve to live like that. Many times that Believer may not know the woman lost her husband in death and suffers from extreme depression. She may have lost her home and had no where else to go. A widow indeed. But how many Believers take the time to find that out? Will they help a widow if she is homeless. Would they help a widow even if they didn't live up to their expectations?
Did you know that homeschool girls do the same thing to girls who attend a formal school? Did you know that some Christian girls do the same thing to other girls who don't live up to what 'they' think those girls should live up to? Just what is the measuring rod for finding the right friends? Who are we to judge another girl?
Your parents have the right to help you in your associations with other young people. The
y have that right. Above all you must obey your parents. However, there will come a day when you will be given more freedom to choose your own friends. We can have friends that are close while still being friendly towards the others. Our purpose in life is not to abstain from every sinful person out there, if we do that we'll never reach anyone with the Light of Jesus Christ. All they'll ever see are Pharisees.We need to be wise and use discernment in our friendships with others. Yet we can still reach out at the prompting of the Holy Ghost. Just as the Good Samaritan did. Interesting to notice two stories that God wanted us to know about, the Samaritan woman who was not to be spoken to by a Jew (but He did) and a Samaritan man who was the real neighbor who loved as Christ loved. Yet it was the religious people who passed by the injured man and refused to help him.
Only you will know which kind of Believer you are. Believe in the Law and become a Pharisee or walk in the grace that Christ extended to you and love others in return. Jesus said this about the Law and his Love,
Matthew 22:34-40 "34But when the Pharisees had heard that he had put the Sadducees to silence, they were gathered together.
35Then one of them, which was a lawyer, asked him a question, tempting him, and saying,
36Master, which is the great commandment in the law?
37Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.
38This is the first and great commandment.
39And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
40On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets."
Philippians 2:5, "Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus:"

Sisterlisa is the owner and Editor-in-Chief of Growing in Grace Magazine and owner of AGMinistries, a devotion blog for women. She is married and homeschools her four children while remaining active in serving the Lord in her community.




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By His grace, God offers us the free gift of salvation through Jesus Christ who died on the cross for our sins. God’s sinless, sovereign Son scorned by several, sacrificed self (solely suitable, satisfactory scapegoat) to save sinners’ souls securely from sin, suppressing sly satan’s success. That’s amazing grace, indeed!
Romans 6 gives us the access, and the authority is from the One who now sits upon the Throne, who can bring our petitions before the Father.
